How To Find True Love In The Modern World
Just how do you find true love in the modern world? There are so many options:
Speed dating, online dating, adult sex chat rooms, smart phone apps and so much more.
So….have you ever wondered about this? If you have, or if you still do, then it is a strong sign that the emotional aspects of your life are somehow unfulfilled. In fact, you might even have a wound at the spiritual level that is not yet healed or whole.
Having such thoughts does not make you a bad person, or even weak. It’s actually okay to have such feelings even when you’re in a relationship. What’s good is that you know you have such thoughts and that you spend time contemplating them. It’s a good idea to be aware of all the pitfalls but also all the joys in a love relationship. The sheer fact that you feel this way is a sign that you have dreams yet to be realised, but the next question is what is it you are looking for specifically?
You might be in love with someone and have them in your life. You might even be married happily with them, but if you are missing the ‘true’ aspect to your love, then either you’re in the wrong relationship, or your current one is missing something.
Finding true love in the modern world is, unfortunately, not a simple matter. How to start looking for love depends a lot on where you are currently at in life and beginning from there. However, there are three general tactics you can try depending on your personal circumstances.
If you are in a relationship or marriage and you suspect that it could be much better, heightened to true love or just be returned to that state, then you need to spice things up a little. That might mean a trip away, talking more to each other about your needs or dreams, or just creating a date night away from family, kids, friends and work.
Should you be in a relationship and know in your heart that true love is not there and never will be, then you might have a decision to make. You can either be grateful for what you have and accept it, or you can break it off and move on to finding someone else, either through dating or spending time with people that share your personal passions.
In all cases, alone already or not, the thing you might need to do is look within instead of out. You might have someone who truly loves you, but you don’t feel it because you don’t truly love yourself. Your relationship with the face in the mirror every morning is the hardest relationship you’ll ever have.
Just take a look in the mirror…..